Limb to Limb

Was your first house a tree?

Simone and Naomi found a nook they could play in.

Simone making her way up.

Tree cave visitor.

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The surface of the water at Moss Bay

Simone had Moss Bay sailing and kayaking camp this week.

Here she is coming back from Ivar’s Salmon house.

At the end of the day, everyone jumps into Lake Union…including Naomi and me!

It must have been quite a workout. Five minutes after getting into the car, Simone was asleep. She was not belted in. She was not even in her seat. We sat in the parking lot for a couple of hours, as it turned out the rest of us were tired too.

Naomi fully spent.

It was fun jumping off the dock and swimming about in Lake Union.


The first day of camp focuses on Being Smooth, the second on Being Balanced, the third is about Rhythm, the fourth is about Being Powerful and the last day is on Being Harmonious. Moss Bay was an awesome camp.

Peeking through the kayaks at Naomi and Simone.

The mornings were overcast and chilly. The surface of the water was pulled tight and looked like dark glass. In contrast, the afternoons were incredibly hot, the water was choppy, and as my Dad used to say when we were out sailing, “clear as a bell.”

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On Thursday We Were A Circus

Today our itinerary at the Pacific Science Museum begins at the circus exhibit and then moves on to “BiPed Game Show” about our human ancestor, Lucy and what her remains can teach us about BiPedalism. There is a tightrope in this circus that you can walk (harnessed in) and a trampoline with a hip strap so that you can do front and back spins in the air.

Evergreen peers, Nicole, Janelle, Sophie and Annabel meet at the Circus exhibit. Above is Janelle walking the tight-rope fabulously. There is no matt and you feel the thin wire could not possibly be all you have to stand on. Turns out this wire is 3x the size of the one used by circus professionals.


In the dark top part of this overview of the exhibit, you can see a boy in the air.
He is above a trampoline, doing dozens of aerial somersaults.

Nicole up in the sky on the tightrope.

Funny posters.

Naomi and Simone play in one of the boxes used by contortionists.


Annabel and Naomi can play together for hours. “Watchout!” Naomi says, “We already lit the fuse and any second we’re going to blast out of this canon!”

Some of the wild antics you can do on the trampoline.


Simone center front eagerly hoping to be cast as one of the contestants for the science game show on BiPedialism. She wasn’t picked this time but has been in the past. She loves the questions about our homo sapien ancestor, Lucy and when it is time for the audience to help the participants, she and Sophie shout out the answers. The game show tells the story of Lucy who lived in Ethiopia more than 3 million years ago. She is from the genus Australopithecus Afarensis and is a Biped…which is ascertained by the neck hinge and the inward leaning knees. The museum game shows are packed.

After the presentation Sophie and Simone help put things away.


Outside of the science museum is the whale waterfall. The inscription describes how whales used to swim from the Pacific Ocean through Lake Union and into Lake Washington. Hard to believe. Imagine jumping off the dock in Madison Park and swimming with an Orca pod.


Found a sunny spot. The girls have a blast at Seattle Center. Above is Annabel, Sophie, Simone and Naomi playing “Mommy, Daddy and Babies” among the rocks.

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Zombie Parade or The sum was far greater than its parts

Fremont put an urgent call out for Zombies to gather for the annual “Red, White and Dead” parade. Fremont gathered 3,894 last year but lost the Guinness world record to England by a wee 132 undead brain eating participants.

Yes, our beautiful girls, McKinley, Kaya and Simone, are working hard to help Seattle win back the title.


By the looks of the blood spurting, the lurching, the grunting of hungry Zombies that showed up…Seattle clearly has a knack for the Undead.


It was just another fun outing for (from left) McKinley, Jeannie, Simone, Kaya, Andy, Russ and David. It was Halloween in July.


I get uncomfortable when Naomi picks up a stick and calls it a shooter. Or when, as she does often, she says, “Simone, you be the fairy and I’ll be the bad guy.” I do realize she is playing a bad guy for the fun of exploring that character but I am a bit uncomfortable seeing her even pretending to be violent. When we came upon this “shoot them up” scene (above) I was tentative and didn’t know how to interact. The girls had no problem. They embraced the zany street theatre and pretend fights. The young “masters of improvisation” took over this Emergency Vehicle for a while. They loved being ghouls for the afternoon.


“Brains, brains, ugh, I need brains!” begged McKinley ”Ummm delicious green brains.” Added Kaya “I don’t know. I’d go first, but those brains look downright runny.” said Simone.

“We’ll seal the back. No one escapes the Zombie’s Emergency crash mobile.” led McKinley


“The sum was far greater than its parts.” said Russ. Quite true. It was the scene that came together when thousands of undead take over the streets that made this so much fun.


Zombies of all ages and…


…from all walks of life.

The head-less man was our favorite costume.


McKinley and Russ stayed in character much of the time…even as we headed home. Simone had the best view from her perch on David’s shoulders. Naomi sat on Kaya’s lap on the stroller. The whole parade was a bit much for her and her lower lip trembled at her first sighting of fake blood but she wanted to hang in there and told us later “Wasn’t being bad, fun!”

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Geocaching or There was Shakespeare at the Troll


Have you done any geocaching?  Last week at a wonderful birthday party for Simone’s classmate Meredith, we geo-cached at Richmond Beach and discovered an artillery box full of books. Smitten with the adventure, we decided to create a pop-up small book to add to the artillery box cache.

We wanted to share the fun of geocaching with our pals McKinley and Kaya Daggatt who live in Seattle’s Freemont neighborhood.

We started at noon and put together an assortment of tiny toys to leave in the geocaches and we set off for the first site. It was a stone’s throw from the Daggatt houseboat on Lake Union.

We searched every inch of the grassy knoll but (4 feet or not)….no cache was found!

Discouraged, we conferred (family meeting) and decided to move on to another cache hidden at the Fremont Troll. (FYI. McKinley is sporting Zombie make-up for the 5 pm massive gathering of Zombies.)

Naomi shouts, “Look Simone, it’s our house,” as we pass a welded fence with an image of the Smith Tower.

It is always fun to visit the Troll under Aurora Bridge. He holds a real VW bug in his hand. Turns out, Work It Productions’ was holding a performance of Shakespeare at the Troll starting right when we arrived. It was a series of scenes and sonnets from Bard’s works. The girls lined up eagerly to watch.

When it was over (an hour later) the treasure hunt resumed. The hint was that this cache was magnetic.

“Nothing in his nose.” – Kaya”

“It’s not on the signs or the railing.” -Naomi”
“Something is wrong. I don’t think it is here. Muggles must have got this one too.” -Kaya.  (Group meeting.) This is not working. ” Let’s go put on our Zombie outfits!” – McKinley.

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And besides, they are DISTINCT!

An email just in from my good friend Monica about a conversation between Sophie (6) and Annabel (3) that she overheard:

Petra,

On the way home from camp today, I heard the following conversation in the backseat:

Sophie: “Now I REALLY want a pet, Mommy!” (after seeing a Jasper look-a-like poking his head out of a distant car window)
Annabel: “Me too! I want a pet baby Unicorn.”
Sophie: “There’s no such thing as a real baby Unicorn. They are a mythological creature. And besides, they are DISTINCT. They don’t exist anymore.”
Annabel: “Yes they do exist! Playmobil makes them!”
Sophie: “No, they’re distinct!”
Annabel: “Yes, I WANT A BABY UNICORN!!!!”
Sophie: “No!!!!!!”
Annabel: “Yes!!”
Sophie: “No!!”
Annabel: “Waaaahhhhh!!”

This seems to capture our life right now, from fairies and unicorns, to the tug of war and ultimate tears. At least I can laugh about it, right?

Love, M.

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How we ended up in the Smith Tower lighthouse?

One beautiful Seattle day, I looked up and was hypnotized by the pointy triangle on top of the Smith Tower.  I contacted the Samis Foundation (owners) about taking a look at the upper floors of their massive inventory of downtown buildings and warehouses for a long term lease….but it was the belfry of the Smith Tower that I was clamoring after.  A year went by negotiating for the lighthouse, transforming the Smith Tower into a multi-use bldg and navigating Seattle’s occupancy regulations.  I doubt this project would have been successful, if it wasn’t for the creativity of Sally Patterson, Jim Castanes, Dale Chihuly and William Justen…. to name just a few.  Nor could it have happened without the neighborhood.  Many jumped in to help… reminded me a bit of the communal transformation behind Clingstone.

The pyramid evolved from a series of dark creepy spaces into a bright open dwelling. A water tank was removed, giant concrete lumps left on the floors were jack-hammered out, heated maple floors put in, the ladders between the floors became stairs, a make-shift kitchen and two bathrooms were added and most important of all, the gothic windows were made operable. The resulting triangle has been my residence for thirteen years and it now houses four of us, my husband David, and our daughters, Simone (6) and Naomi (3).

I had no idea when moving in just how marvelous Pioneer Square would be. It is a unique community of intelligent, fun, authentic and visionary people. Children are warmly welcomed into galleries, stores, restaurants and the rich fabric of this diverse neighborhood has turned out to be a wonderful place to raise a family.

There was a white light at the top of the pyramid when I first moved in. The lease states that the tenant is to change the lightbulbs when they burn out. Somehow, I saw that as a license to also change the color.  One day, I opted for an ultra-marine bulb. The neighborhood was up in arms and alerted the Seattle Historic Society. Then a keen young intern at the Samis Foundation, Jack Almo, who happened to be writing an essay on the fiscal history of the Smith Tower, stumbled upon a story about the buildings inauguration festivities back in 1914. Turns out that the Smith Tower first opened its doors with multi-colored lights shining from the globe. That established a history of colorful beams coming from the lighthouse to celebrate various holidays and the historic society and neighborhood group allowed my blue beacon to stay. Thank you Jack!

View west from a living room window. Originally there were one or two horizontal bars (as you see above) across the windows and when I was pregnant with Simone, both David and I decided to install bars and gates throughout the house to abate our intense nightmares. The place is now a fortress.

Our curious babies could bang on the bars as much as they wanted and be safe. This is looking West to Elliot Bay from the bedroom window.  You can see the tug boats leading three tankers out to the sound.   The little boat is the water taxi to West Seattle that leaves from Pier 55.

Glad the sink was a large one as it soon became the post dinner “wipe down” spot for Simone and Naomi.  These two girls channel …the pursuit of happiness …and often go from one body of water to the next.  There is a large tub on the lower level squeezed into a southwest facing alcove that faces Mount Rainer.  The tub is a pool (with a great view) for these two pumpkins.

Looking up at the front facade from the street.  A few pieces of terra cotta fell during the 6.8 Nisqually earthquake in 2001. Not one thing even fell off a shelf in the apartment.  In my office on the 32nd floor (the neck of the Smith Tower) big chunks of plaster toppled onto my desk.  The building as a whole did remarkably well.  The post earthquake proofing has lightened the building and made it even more flexible.  Surely there will be another one.

Seasick?  Even after 13 years, I feel dizzy looking down from the globe to the “eye lids” of the gothic windows and the busy streets below.  Below is the corner where 2nd Ave and James street meet and which is where Pioneer Square begins.

I was inspired by the bookshelves Dale Chihuly built in the lavatories off the Pendleton room at the Boathouse (his home and studio) and ended up making my own set of bookshelves with a polymer edging I found at home depot.  What I like is how this showcases the covers of the books rather than just the spines.In the Chihuly Hotshop urinal, Dale installed two buck heads with massive racks. Though taxidermy might offend some, I so want to also co-opt that idea …sans the urinal.The books here are from a box of paperback books I was reading in New York City in 1984. It is a snapshot of the early eighties.  It speaks to what was important then. Janet Malcolm, Joan Didion, Flaubert, James Baldwin, Voltaire, Graham Greene, Richard Brautigan, Peter Matthiessen, Oscar Wilde, Kant, Aldous Huxley, Henry Miller, Thomas Berger, Dashiell Hammett, Virginia Wolfe, Jean Cocteau… There are a few new additions, Cold Snap by Thom Jones, a little hard-cover red book on the right hand side, True Patriot by Eric Liu and Nick Hanauer and “Don’t Think of an Elephant” by George Lakoff. (See “Evening with Lakoff” post.)

The rug came from Jordan in 1999.  The black chairs are said to be 300 to 400 years old. They were in pieces when I found them. Some glue, cushions and a coat of paint brought them back to life.

This is from the annual “Rational Evening.”  Each guest brings a fact, statistic or novel view that has changed the way they see a particular issue. We go around the room.  Peeled over one moment and in tears the next.  En masse it becomes an adhoc symposium on the issues that are relevant to our friends today on that particular day.

Friends arrive and depart by an elevator in the Chinese Room. Pictured here is Fred, Ben, Margit, David and me. Ben and Margit Rankin are Simone and Naomi’s godparents along with William Justen.  Can’t have too many godparents!  Any other takers?

Simone cycling in the lobby on a rainy day when the Chinese room deck and the roof of the parking garage across the street are too wet. Security guards, Alex and Adam with bikes in the background are ready for their wet commutes home. Seattle bikes.

Looking South toward the stadiums at dawn.

Looking South toward the stadiums at dawn, you can see the result of the six story limit. North of the tower is the tall and skinny zoning so when you see the city from the ferry, The Smith Tower and The Space Needle appear as bookends for the downtown buildings.

The city at the end of the day is one big sculpture park.

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Birthday at 3700 feet

We flew to the Hampton’s on June 19 which is Simone’s birthday. The flight attendant, Maria, had an idea. Over the intercom, she had the passengers light the candles by pressing the attendant call buttons. Then they sang Happy Birthday and then Simone made a wish and blew out the candles at which point the passengers pressed the call buttons again to snuff the candles out.



By the way, less you think we’re sliding on the parental duties, it would be good to add that perhaps the birthday largess went a bit over the top this year. Simone had already enjoyed a giant 120 guest “Big Dig” Treasure hunt at the beach (epic as always) and celebrated her birthday at school and then again with her god-parents. She didn’t mind flying on her special day and loved joining the cross-country flight team.

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There is something about the outside of a horse that is good for the inside of a man. -Winston Churchill

My good friend Annie Reese (mother of Cora and Liam) invited us to join them for riding lessons at the Willows Edge Farm in Bothell. The riding school has friendly maneless horses called Norwegian Fjords that are perfect for young riders. Be forewarned …throughout this post are horse jokes that Naomi and Simone have been testing out on their friends.

Cora went first and took to riding immediately.

A cowboy rode into town on Thursday,
Stayed 3 days and rode out on Thursday.
How is this possible?
(Answer: His horse’s name was Thursday.)

Liam went next. He was ready to trot.

Did you hear about the sad horse?
He told a tale of whoa!
Where do you take a sick horse?
To the horspital of course.

Simone loved it.

Girl: We have a mayor. Do you?
Horse: Sure!
Girl: What do you call it?
Horse: Same as you do. Mare!

All the horses had the Willows Farm heart brand on their rumps.

One day, while I was petting a Shetland Pony at the zoo, a friend of mine asked, “How are you today?” I responded, “I’m feelin a little hoarse.”

Naomi’s spiderman boots work fine.

What does it mean if you find a horse shoe?
Some poor horse is walking around in his socks.

Each lesson began with a few rounds of no hands. Naomi talked the whole time she was riding. “Sweet horsey. You have a nice coat. I like it way up here. etc..” She was a wee bit nervous and found her own way to handle it.

“But I’ve got a horse out in the country
I get to see him every second Sunday
He comes when I call him,
Yeah,he knows his name
One day I’ll saddle up And the
two of us will ride away”

-Cowboy Junkies

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Greenlake ships.

We seem to be on the weekly boat rental program at Greenlake.


Simone and Naomi like the big double-wide mothership so they can walk around easily and be pirates. I like the boogie board best, but they have to stay very still or we all get a chilly bath.

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Abbey Road

The Daggatt’s are visiting Gemma’s family in London. Great Shot!

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Leaping McKinley

McKinley’s leap. Isn’t it beautiful.

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Arne’s egg.



What a satisfying chair. Thank you Arne Jacobsen for creating this beautiful lounge.

(There is a whisper of Eero Saarinen in here.)

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Mazama Migration 2010

Every Spring for a decade, we’ve been migrating north to sunny Mazama around the time of David’s birthday on May 25th. Our tribal gathering place is now Michal Friedrich’s Wesola Polana.

You can see the rusty steel “Herd” lined up behind Simone. The alien looking RV’s or ”Rolling Huts” were designed by architect Tom Kundig. What a blast to stay in. There is now a little restaurant right in the compound called the Wesola Polano diner so packing for the trip north means we just need to get the bike gear and kids in the car.


First things first, bask in the sun, then unload the car. Above, John Gilleland, Kim Turos, Monica Stephenson, David Stephenson gather on the deck. We’ve had groups of 70 or so migrate north and other years, most years there are about 20 of us.

We peel off for hikes, rides, swims, climbs and use the farm house porch as our communal living room where we litter the kids toys and set up the slack line.


Naomi on the river trail gathering sticks and singing with her boots reversed and her shirt on backwards.

Naomi bare back on the little red machine but donning a helmut.

Anselm and Simone climbing on one of the Rolling Huts.


The fields are linked and out in the middle of nowhere we found a badminton court, a soccer field and above where Simone is standing there is a massive telescope.


Simone found a pile of feathers in the soccer field. An eagle had just swooped down for a pigeon lunch and left a bit of roughage behind.

David and Naomi off to check out the Mazama river.

Simone and Sophie climbing the Wesola rock.

Ahoy Captain Ahab, we’ll be setting sail in a few minutes. Come aboard with us.

Jungle-gym in the forest.

Sophie, Annabel, David and Monica arrived not long after we did.

Strangely, even playing cards seems special at Wesola.


David Stephenson takes many photos and does the annual video interviews of the kids. He is taking the photo below.

The kids run wild for the 3 or 4 days we are in the Methow Valley.


Naomi and David hitting the wiffle. David made it extremely clear that he didn’t want any birthday presents and of course we heard him but we didn’t listen. We made lots of things for him, fancy awards, paintings with photos in them, sculptures and pottery, poems…

…after all that, I think he liked them. The red hat above was also a present.


Treasure hunts are a part of this tribes vernacular. 20 particularly delicious plums are hidden along the path to the river. We use the Tarico rules which go like this. You can find two plums…then when you spot a third plum you need to stand in the path near it but not give it away, thereby giving a hint to a younger hunter. Once everyone has two, it is a free for all.

We looked and looked but we could only recover 19 plums. Hmm.

Blaise and Adrienne out for an idyllic walk along the river.

Maryanne and Michal will be parents by July!

Spinning the wheel that opens the windows of Michal’s house up.


Here is the Delta Shelter in a closed position. The kids love to turn the big wheel that opens and closed the steel blinds. The bed is on rollers and can slide out onto the porch for sleeping under the stars.


Each year, David interviews the kids. Sophie is going first this year. He poses a short series of questions:

1.) “What do you know now that you didn’t know last year?”

2.) “What do you love to do?”

3.) “Is there anything in particular that you want to do next year?”

John and Kim out walking with Dante who is groomed with a Lion’s mane.

Putting the wheel on for a road ride.


Anselm, Blaise, Adrienne and I went for a hike only to discover we were hip deep in snow. We found a few rocks to rest on between the drifts.


It is June 1st, Eliot’s 4th birthday. Blaise made a flour-less chocolate cake and lit matches for candles.

Wish successfully launched.



Simone, Petra, Eliot in birthday crown and Anselm on a visit to the horses with carrots, apples and an onion. They liked them all.

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PHOTO FRIDAY



Simone and Naomi climb onto David’s bike at “Wesola Polana” in Mazama. This is one of our favorite vacation spots! The kids love staying in Tom Kundig’s Rolling Huts. Here are more pictures.

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Grandma Elinor and Naomi

Being with Grandma is wonderful

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Chinese Carving on the Bedroom door

Naomi asked to make a post about these.  She looks at them every day and wants to share them.  These are scenes from the door to the girl’s bedroom.  The story we often hear told is that these Chinese artworks (doors, chairs, wall pieces) were items sent to LC Smith by the Empress of China in 1912 for the Smith Tower Chinese Room.

I recovered them from under the building in 1997.  They were grimy and in pieces. The ones that could be cleaned up and put together, I built into the apt so that they would again be part of the building.

You can probably imagine that the carvings spawned bedtime stories. They usually start with an explorer (us) approaching their ruler to request supplies for a journey to a yet undiscovered land. Then we come up with the actual expeditions.  And of course, those lead us to discoveries of marvel-filled foreign cultures with cures and wisdom that can be brought back to save our homeland.

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Event at Perkins Coie

Joe Ruben with Funding Post asked a few of us in the early stage investing arena to talk about the start-up environment. The event was sponsored by Perkins Coie and held at their downtown Seattle office.

Lucinda Stewart and Bill Bryant were volleying questions frmo the audience and gave polar opposite answers which had the room in stitches.

Yes even in this dire recession, we made it as fun as we could (what else can we do) as we shared frank stories of defeat and triumph.

Bill McAleer, Managing Director, Voyager Capital
Lucinda Stewart, Managing Directors, OVP Venture Partners
Bill Bryant, Venture Partner, Draper Fisher Jurvetson
Saqib Rasool, CEO and Angel Investor, Conceivian
Cathi Hatch, Founder and CEO, ZINO Society
Janis Machala, Founder and Managing Partner, Paladin Partners

Moderator: Ben Straughan, Partner, Perkins Coie
and of course Petra Franklin, Managing Director, Vault Capital

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Heating Up



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Wiffling the afternoon away

We’re hanging at the Schembre’s house (fairly frequent occurrence) and got the wiffle bat out.

Bases are loaded and Lucy hit’s one out of the park.

Simone on 2nd base and pitcher Drew is ready with a “you can hit it” ball.

I’m ready Drew! – Naomi

Did I hit it? – Naomi

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